Need A Relationship Fix 3?

Categories: Relationship Balance | Posted on Jun 5, 2012

CURIOUS  for the CURE?

You are in the right place if you are ready for the cure for life’s greatest stressor . . . impossible relationships!

Part 3 of the QUICK RELATIONSHIP FIX series just may be the cure!

First, let’s  review  what you discovered in Part 1 and 2.

Part 1:   MOTIVATED AND RESPONSIBLE . . . FOR YOU!

RESET YOUR MINDSET to prepare for fast, easy, lasting change.
DISASSOCIATE from the energy of the difficult person with the MIND MOVIE TECHNIQUE.
STRETCH and FLEX your view by changing to 3 positions.
IDENTIFY  3 roles difficult people play.

Review here:  QUICK BRAIN RELATIONSHIP FIX,  Part 1

Part 2  TRUTHS that SET YOU FREE to SEE

UNIVERSAL CORE BLIEF
BRIDGE  to  ACCEPTANCE
FILTERS and SORTING STYLES
GENDER VIEWS, WIRING and COMFORT ZONES

Review here:   QUICK BRAIN RELATIONSHIP FIX,  Part 2

REALITY IS . . . difficult relationships can be impossible.  Where ever you go, there they are.  Reality holds few clues or lasting answers.    FICTION just be the cure for REALITY.

QUICK BRAIN RELATIONSHIP FIX (PART 3):  BE DELUSIONAL

SINK or SOAR?

CHOICE or NO CHOICE?

Either way, you are choosing.  By  default, most bail.  It’s a temporary fix at best.    No matter where you go, there they are . . . up close and personal.  Negative thoughts and picture reruns are evidence that they are alive and thrive in you brain space. Their energy intensifies and sinks you deeper with each replya. You just can’t leave. . . you.  The enemy is INSIDE you!  What you do not approve or agree, you become . . . entangled, enmeshed and trapped with NO CHOICE.

You can’t have it both ways, it’s either or:  1)  You are powerless with no choice (that’s the WHINE)  2) You have power with choice (that’s the BLESSING) .  Your life was, is, and will be a series of each choice you made to either  sink or  soar. 

No flying leaps!  Lasting change starts where you are sinking.   It’s life’s only equal playing field.  Until you change, nothing changes.

Get the lessons to pass the grade.   The lessons are life rings that become wings to lift Higher to soar effortlessly.  Regrets weight and sink you to deeper bottoms.

Until you pass the grade, you attract more of the same.” Elizabeth Harrison

PREPARE YOUR BRAIN SPACE

STOP NOW.  Check your brain space.   If  you have racing thoughts, negative feelings, and picture reruns . . .   your brain files are in disarray. blocking you from fast, easy, lasting change.  Use the skills  you discovered in the training,   BrainBodyBalance:Brain Feng Shui Technique to quickly organize your brain space for optimal results.   The picture below represents a reminder of brain body space files when they are in  proper order,  PRESENT.

Racing thoughts and negative feelings alert you that your brain files are cluttered, disorganized and taking up  valubale space meant only for the Present. Organize your brain files now for fast, easy, lasting change. Grab your FREE training video: Brain Feng Shui: Self Help Technique now.

REALITY MIND MOVIE

PLAY the memory rerun of the difficult relationship, INSIDE your brain space, the way you always do.

PROJECT the memory rerun into the future and view the gloom and doom if nothing changes.

TRANSFER the memory rerun from your brain space to the REALITY MIND MOVIE  screen in front of you.

NAME the REALITY MIND MOVIE:  “Roadrunner”,”And That’s How the Fight Started”,”Till Misery Do We Part”,”Fatal Attraction”,”Jell-O”,”Mission Impossible” ? ? ?

DELETE THE CLUTTER

ASK 3 QUICK BRAIN FIX QUESTIONS

1 What’s my part?      2 What’s my power?      3 How’s this working out for me?

These questions instantly sort through the clutter to find the priority issues so  you can delete what stops you more easily.

Review here:  Stop 80% Racing Thoughts Quick Fix

SHIFT into your own body space,  BE PRESENT .

CHOOSE one picture to represent the difficult relationship.  You can make a collage if you choose.

SAY    “STOP!”  LOUDLY   to interrupt,  startle and confuse your habit of racing negative thoughts.PLACE a   ?  over the picture of you and the difficult relationship.

RESET your MINDSET  to be OPEN and CURIOUS, preparing your brain space to release old habits effortlessly.

REPLACE the misery of  expectations, needs, judgment, criticism and blame with the HEAL ALL . . .

“Let go, let God / Love heals all.”

FIRE YOURSELF, it is not your business or problem, to change others. Your efforts are futile. Invest  where you get a better return . . . INSIDE you.

SAY AND THINK

“THAT IS AN ODD, STRANGE, DIFFERENT WAY TO DO LIFE . . . IT WOULD NOT BE MY CHOICE!”

REPEAT it when you rerun a memory of  the person that you do  not approve or agree.

‘Letting go’  using this  this simple statement lets you off the hook!

“Letting go’ disassociates you from sharing negative conflictual energy.

“Letting go’  sets your brain space free to quickly learn the lessons and pass the grade Higher.

“Lessons learned”  cancel regrets. Make it a goal to leave none behind. You earned them.

“Lessons learned”  beome  life’s greatest teacher.

“Lessons learned” are your life’s greatest blessings.  You’d be mush without them!

“Get the lessons, pass the grade and soar . . . it cancels regrets!”  Elizabeth Harrison

FICTION MIND MOVIE

BE DELLUSIONAL

You can’t change others, like it or not.   You attempts to manipulate and control  are futile,  a band aid at best.     Bailing is not an option.   You can’t leave you.     They thrive and live INSIDE your brain space, playing reruns without your permission.

BE DELUSIONAL.   Don’t get hung up on reality.  Your brain does not know REALITY from FICTION.  Use this to your advantage.

CREATE   and direct a FICTION MIND MOVIE.  Play a   perfect movie of the way it ‘coulda, shoulda, woulda’ been if you had it your way.

STRETCH beyond your view and see it through Higher Eyes of God’s Perfect Love. 

PROJECT the positive interactions of the FICTION MIND MOVIE into the future.

CONFUSE neural pathways  and INTERUPT old thought patterns each time you rerun the new FICTION MIND MOVIE.

DO IT NOW.   No admission charged.  Just don’t forget the popcorn!

NAME the FICTION MIND MOVIE: “That’s Where the Fight Ended”, “Soar Free”, “You Teach Me What Not to Do, Who Not to Be”, “Till Soaring Do We Part” ? ? ?

LOVE’s  VIEW

RERUN the FICTION MIND MOVIE.   Each replay strengthens positive neural pathway habits, a gift you give yourself INSIDE.

RETURN to REALITY MIND MOVIE only with PURPOSE to problem solve, then  switch back to the new FICTION MIND MOVIE.

BE DELUSIONAL OFTEN

“What you think, your life becomes.”  Scriptures

When you are reminded of the difficult relationship, consider it an alert from God that you both need the FICTION MIND MOVIE replay. The movie is a prayer form, a dream, a blessing that jumpstarts change to a Higher frequency first INSIDE you, moving OUTSIDE to the relationship and back to you.

Exchanging the REALITY MIND MOVIE  for  the FICTION MIND MOVIE reaps amazing benefits.

It protects you from the negative energy of being entangled in conflict.

It shifts your energy Higher when you ‘let go, let God’ .

It frees you to hear, see, sense and know Higer Love’s solutions.

It cancels  regrets so you pass the grade.

It gifts you with Higher bottoms. (Doesn’t everyone want that?)

SELF TEST  and REVIEW

You know you are a graduate if. . .

You find yourself playing FICTION MIND MOVIE  without your conscious effort when the difficult relationship comes to mind.

You choose to switch briefly to the REALITY MIND MOVIE  for the purpose of problem solving.

You remain more  peaceful with each thought of them.   They no longer  power to  ‘rise’ out of you.

You redeem your regrets, exchanging stress for lessons turned blessings.

You find yourself protected and blessed more with each lesson, shifting you Higher into the CIRCLE PRESENT.

You   attract relationships with  a HIGHER energy of  Love and Acceptance.

QUANTUM LEAP

You will know you are ready to take quantum leap and do it an even easier way when you find you are bored with the FICTION MIND MOVIE reruns.

It’s time for the condensed version.   When they come to mind, just see everyone soaring, no questions asked.  Toss everyone a CIRCLE even if they have not changed, even if they never change.      Be generous, it sets you more free each CIRCLE  you toss to your enemy.  It’s the ultimate DELUSION. It’s ultimate LOVE . . . with no strings attached.

BE PROACTIVE.  Scan your life  files for  remnants of past sinker memories, mark them with a CIRCLE soaring and transfer them to your PENDING LEARNINGS file.  With each recall, grab another lesson . . . especially the one about “never leave your CIRCLE, that’s your life PRESENT!

 BE DELUSIONAL.  FICTION CURES REALITY!  CIRCLES 2U!

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